There are countless good talks given in General Conference. In fact, are any of them ‘not good’ ? Just like scriptures I think we can hear and read them many times and get knew things out of a talk that we didn’t catch the last time. I came across this talk the other day and it really struck a chord with me. I am not by any means perfect at teaching my children everything that I need or want to. I have this little worry that pops up more and more the older they get that my time to influence and instill things that I think are important is getting shorter and shorter with them. Before I know it they will be on their own and continuing their life without my daily input. This then brings in more worries of am I doing enough for them to learn everything? Am I doing to much for them so they don’t learn? How can I do better? How can I really help it sink in? Plus all the inadequacies and shortcomings I have with impatience, losing my temper, maintaining correct priorities, consistency, persistence, diligence …I could go on but the point is there is no shortage of areas that I can work on to improve myself as a mom and a person. If I’m not careful with these thoughts they can quickly lead to panic and feeling overwhelmed that there is just to much and there is no way I can do everything I am supposed to and need and want to do for my kids. When I read this talk, I felt good. I don’t even really know how to explain why. It made me want to recommit myself to doing the things that I have been slacking on and continue with the things I am doing well on. I guess I am saying that I thought this was a very motivational talk for me. It made me appreciate and remember what a blessing my kids are and this time that I get to have with them. We can all drive each other crazy sometimes but we love each other like crazy too. I am glad that we have a prophet and apostles to remind us how important and eternal families are and that the Holy Ghost can help me and nudge me along the way to say and do things with my kids that will strike a chord with them strengthen their testimonies of the Savior.
No Greater Joy Than to Know That They Know
By Elder K. Brett Nattress Of
the Seventy
Brothers and sisters, I have recently been pondering this
question: “If all that your children knew of the gospel came from you—as their only source—how
much would they know?” This
question applies to all those who love, mentor, and influence children.
Is there any greater gift that we can impart to our children
than a memory burned deep into their hearts that we know that our Redeemer
lives? Do they know that we know? And more important, have they come to know
for themselves that He lives?
When I was a boy, I was my mother’s most difficult young child
to raise. I had an overabundance of energy. My mother tells me that her
greatest fear was that I would not live to see adulthood. I was just too
active.
I remember as a young boy sitting in one particular sacrament
meeting with our family. My mother had just received a new set of scriptures.
This new set combined the entire standard works into one bound edition, and in
the very center was lined paper for note-taking.
During the meeting, I asked if I could hold her scriptures. With
the hope of promoting my reverence, she handed them down the pew. As I perused
her scriptures, I noticed that she had written a personal goal in the note
section. To provide context for her goal, I must tell you that I am the second
of six children and my name is Brett. My mother had written, in red, just one
goal: “Patience with Brett!”
As further evidence to help you understand the challenge my
parents faced in raising our family, let me tell you about our family scripture
reading. Each morning, my mother read the Book of Mormon to us during
breakfast. During this time, my older brother, Dave, and I would sit quietly
but irreverently. To be completely honest, we weren’t listening. We were
reading the print on the cereal boxes.
Finally, one morning, I
decided to square up with my mother. I exclaimed, “Mom, why are you doing this
to us? Why are you reading the Book of Mormon every morning?” I then made a
statement that I am embarrassed to admit to. In fact, I can’t believe I
actually said it. I told her, “Mom, I am not listening!”
Her loving response was a
defining moment in my life. She said, “Son, I was at a meeting where President
Marion G. Romney taught about the blessings of scripture reading. During
this meeting, I received a promise that if I would read the Book of Mormon to
my children every day, I would not lose them.” She then looked me straight in
the eyes and, with absolute determination, said, “And I will not lose you!”
Her words pierced my heart. Notwithstanding my imperfections, I
was worth saving! She taught me the eternal truth that I am a son of a loving
Heavenly Father. I learned that no matter what the circumstance, I was worth
it. This was a perfect moment for an imperfect little boy.
I am eternally grateful for my angel mother and for all angels
who love children perfectly, notwithstanding their imperfections. I firmly
believe that all sisters—I will call them “angels”—are
mothers in Zion, whether or not they are married or bear children during this
earthly experience.
Years ago the First
Presidency proclaimed: “Motherhood is near to divinity. It is the highest,
holiest service to be assumed by mankind. It places her who honors its holy
calling and service next to the angels.”1
I am grateful for angels throughout the Church who boldly and
lovingly proclaim eternal truth to Heavenly Father’s children.
I am grateful for the gift
of the Book of Mormon. I know that it is true! It contains the fullness of the
gospel of Jesus Christ. I am unaware of anyone who is diligently reading the
Book of Mormon each day with pure intent and with faith in Christ who has lost
their testimony and fallen away. Moroni’s prophetic promise carries with it the
key to know the truth of all things—including
having the ability to discern and avoid the deceptions of the adversary. (See Moroni 10:4–5.)
I am also grateful for a
loving Heavenly Father and for His Son, Jesus Christ. The Savior provided the
perfect example of how to live in an imperfect and unfair world. “We love him,
because he first loved us” (1 John 4:19).
His love for us is immeasurable. He is our truest friend. He sweat “as it were
great drops of blood” for you and also for me (Luke 22:44).
He forgave the seemingly unforgivable. He loved the unlovable. He did what no
mortal could do: He provided an Atonement to overcome the transgressions, pains,
and sicknesses of all mankind.
Because of the Atonement
of Jesus Christ, we can live with the promise that no matter what our struggles
may be, we can always have hope in Him, “who is mighty to save” (2 Nephi 31:19).
Because of His Atonement, we can have joy, peace, happiness, and eternal life.
President Boyd K.
Packer stated: “Save for the exception of the very few who defect to perdition,
there is no habit, no addiction, no rebellion, no transgression, no apostasy,
no crime exempted from the promise of complete forgiveness. That is the promise
of the atonement of Christ.”2
One of the most
incredible events in human history is the Savior’s ministering visit to the
ancient inhabitants of America. Visualize in your mind what it would be like to
have been there. As I have pondered His loving and tender care of that band of
Saints gathered at the temple, I have reflected on individual children whom I
love more than life itself. I have tried to conceive of how I would feel to
behold our little ones, to personally witness the Savior inviting each child to
come unto Him, to witness the Savior’s outstretched arms, to stand by as each
child, one by one, gently feels the prints in His hands and in His feet, and
then to see each of them stand and bear record that He lives! (See 3 Nephi 11:14–17;
see also 17:21; 18:25.) To
have our children turn and say, “Mom, Dad, it’s Him!”
I don’t know if anything
in this world could bring more happiness and joy than to know that our children
know the Savior, to know that they know “to what source they may look for a
remission of their sins.” That is why, as members of the Church, “we preach of
Christ” and we testify of Christ (2 Nephi 25:26).
- That is why we pray with our children every day.
- That is why we read the scriptures with them every day.
- That is why we teach them to serve others, so that they can hold
claim upon the blessings of finding themselves as they lose themselves in the
service of others (see Mark 8:35; Mosiah 2:17).
As we devote ourselves to these simple patterns of discipleship,
we empower our children with the love of the Savior and with divine direction
and protection as they face the fierce winds of the adversary.
The gospel truly is about
the one. It is about one lost sheep (see Luke 15:3–7);
it is about one Samaritan woman at a well (see John 4:5–30);
it is about one prodigal son (see Luke 15:11–32).
And it is about one little boy who might claim he is not
listening.
It is about each one of
us—as imperfect as we may be—becoming one with the Savior as He is one with His Father (see John 17:21).
I testify that we have a loving Heavenly Father, who knows us by
name! I testify that Jesus Christ is the living Son of the living God. He is
the Only Begotten and our Advocate with the Father. I further testify that
salvation comes in and through His name—and in
no other way.
It is my prayer that we will devote our hearts and our hands to
helping all of Heavenly Father’s children to know Him and to feel His love. As
we do, He promises us eternal joy and happiness in this world and in the world
to come. In the name of Jesus Christ, amen.
